When andrea and I got together, it was only then that I became aware of how much everything costs. You see, before we became a couple, I didn’t care about how much money I saved or how much I’d spend. That’s why I was surprised to find out that in UK, according to a news article that I read, singletons spend less than couples.
Apparently, the average UK single consumer spends only £281 a month on rent and bills compared to £500 spent by members of couples. Moreover, a single person consumes a monthly average of £22.85 in restaurant bills while people with partners reach a monthly total of £39.50.
It was really shocking. But then, I got to thinking. Isn’t it just normal? I mean, although singletons show very little care for money, they also normally settle for thrifty items because they’re only concerns are their own basic needs. Couples, on the other hand, spend for more than themselves. They spend for their partners too. Not to mention, because they’re spending for the ones they love, they’d be more willing to pay larger amounts just to get the items with the best quality. This could be the main reason why there’s a large gap between expenditures of singletons and couples.
This basic difference may also be the cause of why new couples find themselves pushed against a wall and facing Secured Loans after a few years of being in a relationship. They are trapped in the web of bigger spendings without any warnings whatsoever. And with very few ways of getting out of the situation, some choose to get out of relationships just to get away from bigger responsibilities.
Fortunately for andrea and I, we’re both as thrifty now as we were before we dated. So now, we are still able to keep track of how much we save because we know how much we spend.