Being a father has changed me a lot. One of the things that changed is how I took care of myself. Andrea and I realized that we couldn’t just abuse ourselves anymore. We want to grow old and see Mateo grow up! We want to be there for him in all the important events in his life. And of course, we’d like see our future grandchildren and still be able to keep up with them. I know some old people who are in care homes early in their lives and they are well-taken care of in such homes. Andrea and I, even though we’d love to grow old without needing those, realize that someday we might find ourselves in those places. We fervently hope that we’d still be together if that happens. I look forward to getting all wrinkled and still holding hands with her. Nevertheless, we know we’d still be enjoying life.